Lola’s life could best be described as comfortable. This description had nothing to do with wealth. Rather it was comfortable in terms of being familiar, safe and known. Lola would have it no other way.
When it came to her job, on good days, she considered it to be okay. Occasionally she imagined doing something better. Of course, that would mean a new start. Everything would change. It might even involve a period of discomfort.
Lola had a boyfriend. They’d been together for six years. She cared for him, but she wasn’t in love with him. When Lola admitted this to friends, they asked why she remained in the relationship. She told them it was easier to stay than leave.
This resistance to change applied to all areas of Lola’s life. It affected everything from where she parked the car when she went shopping, to the items she placed in the trolley. In each instance comfort, or familiarity, was sought. It ruled!
In fairness it should be said that Lola’s life wasn’t bad. It was however mediocre. It could never be more than mediocre because comfort came first.
If you want more out of life, be prepared to move beyond your comfort zone. If not, mediocrity will be your prize.
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